Long after things been not going the way they are, we start to question ourselves: why? then we give ourselves some reasons which back us up for the decision we made to stray away from what we had waited all along.
Then, one day when we think of it, we regret. Those reasons collapse. It's because there're no such reasons exist in our world. The fact is the fact itself, as the situation is the situation itself.
As what the title means, what we have to do is actually to put it down. It seems easy but actually it's the hardest thing. It's not about being a taoist or buddhist or sth. It's very simple. Forgive everyone, and the most important thing is, forgive urself. To forgive is not to give the reason to urself that what is to blame and what is to not do...it means u can finally face the situation and the fact as the way they are from the very start. You feel the peace, and ur eyesight has opened up a land beyond ur imagination. And then you are able to put it down, then convey the true meaning of ur feelings with a peaceful tone.
Yup, as you bet...finally i m able to do it. After been through this much and after i watched 仙剑奇侠传, i started to realize things as the way they naturally are.
I do get emotional but the fluctuation has stopped. I can, i could say, face things as the way they are. It's the power of being able to 放下. I sincerely hope that you guys could understand my feelings one day. When you do, please share with me. I am more than happy to talk. ;-)
Then, one day when we think of it, we regret. Those reasons collapse. It's because there're no such reasons exist in our world. The fact is the fact itself, as the situation is the situation itself.
As what the title means, what we have to do is actually to put it down. It seems easy but actually it's the hardest thing. It's not about being a taoist or buddhist or sth. It's very simple. Forgive everyone, and the most important thing is, forgive urself. To forgive is not to give the reason to urself that what is to blame and what is to not do...it means u can finally face the situation and the fact as the way they are from the very start. You feel the peace, and ur eyesight has opened up a land beyond ur imagination. And then you are able to put it down, then convey the true meaning of ur feelings with a peaceful tone.
Yup, as you bet...finally i m able to do it. After been through this much and after i watched 仙剑奇侠传, i started to realize things as the way they naturally are.
I do get emotional but the fluctuation has stopped. I can, i could say, face things as the way they are. It's the power of being able to 放下. I sincerely hope that you guys could understand my feelings one day. When you do, please share with me. I am more than happy to talk. ;-)
2 comments:
i wish my "friend" reads ur post...obviously he's not forgiving me...oh well, life goes on =)
ah what a surprise to see a late comment on this 'meaningful' post of mine.
*sigh*
i dunno but certainly there're ppl in this world who exists to not forgive u...becoz of them, we learn to use the power of putting down and forgiving. they're the people to forgive. ;-)
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