Don't think of anything when you are in joy, go through the joy fully. Then you will truly be joyful.
Don't think of not doing anything when you are sad. Instead, be totally sad, go through it completely. Be yourself when people are around you, reply to them truthfully. If you don't want to speak, don't. If you cry, don't hide your tears. The sadness will just pass by, then you will truly transformed.
Analogy: Be like the rain. Keep raining, then when the rain is meant to stop it will. Then you will see the sunshine.
The same thing with anger. And also with all other emotions. Be totally true.
What is decision? Decision is something that just comes by, in accordance to the situations all around you, including your own feeling and mind and body. A good decision is something which follows that nature. A bad decision is something which is pre-planned forcibly and it turns out that you are just being mindful and expectant, thus defeat the purpose.
Don't decide that you want something. Accept the life you have, move with it in the best way of your nature, and then decide what you need when the next step demands of you.
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Don't think of not doing anything when you are sad. Instead, be totally sad, go through it completely. Be yourself when people are around you, reply to them truthfully. If you don't want to speak, don't. If you cry, don't hide your tears. The sadness will just pass by, then you will truly transformed.
Analogy: Be like the rain. Keep raining, then when the rain is meant to stop it will. Then you will see the sunshine.
The same thing with anger. And also with all other emotions. Be totally true.
What is decision? Decision is something that just comes by, in accordance to the situations all around you, including your own feeling and mind and body. A good decision is something which follows that nature. A bad decision is something which is pre-planned forcibly and it turns out that you are just being mindful and expectant, thus defeat the purpose.
Don't decide that you want something. Accept the life you have, move with it in the best way of your nature, and then decide what you need when the next step demands of you.
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